She wants a guy who is going to step up and ask her out. Mistake #3 – Not having a plan before you text her – Lots of guys will fire off a boring text without giving it much thought. ” What they don’t realize is that she gets texts like this all the time from other guys. She still has good feelings about meeting you, and she gave you her number so she could see you again. Now if you notice in the first text, I sent a combination of stage 3 and stage 2.
Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.