When it comes to family, and children, let your boyfriend decide when and how interactions will occur.
Many daters associate divorced people with excess baggage.
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It's kind of like hanging out with your platonic female divorced friend and hearing her perspective on your divorce and your love life issues.
It often feels daunting, there is uncertainty about how/where to start, and then add to it how damaged he may feel from being divorced, many men avoid the process all together.