In the face of that neglect, the church should be proactive about facilitating what God prizes in Scripture.
That said, there’s a huge difference between being nosy busybodies and facilitating relationships among single adults.
What this looks like will be different in various churches.
The hope here is that these ideas will foster a stronger connection between unmarried people and their local congregations: Churches should have a high view of marriage and uphold it without apology.
But church leaders also need to recognize that when marriage is devalued in our culture, that brokenness comes into the church, too.
When I was a single woman in my mid-thirties, I invited the elders of my church and their wives to a formal holiday dinner as a way of expressing my thanks to them for their care and ministry. ” This pastor offered this comment as an expression of thanks and I received it that way.
As I served the standing rib roast on a table set with china and crystal, one man remarked, “Wow. But I did ponder it afterward, realizing that for many people the link between youthful inexperience and singleness is inextricably linked.
Through the years, I’ve observed that The Singles can be a prickly lot to pastor.