Financially that just doesn’t make sense.”Or, I’d get messages from guys 20 years older than me who didn’t want to date women their own age because they looked “busted.”Or, I’ll talk to male friends who think their romantic relationships are “the most important” factor in their personal happiness, but work 70 hour weeks and devote zero energy to learning the skills of making relationships work. the end result of this is that a lot of men who want kids won’t be able to have kids.
Because, despite more men having children than men.
Garcia studies human mating and dating behavior from an evolutionary standpoint and recently worked on a survey of over 5,000 American singles.(I find out during our interview that, coincidentally, he’s a scientific advisor to Match, which commissioned the survey.
So, just in case you’re wondering, this month’s column is not sponsored by the website.)I tell Garcia about Jane’s dating troubles.
What’s keeping Jane from finding that special long-term someone? She had her tubes tied six months ago.“My dolls were friends, not babies,” she laughs over the phone one rainy afternoon. (And no, Facebook friends, Jane isn’t her real name, so don’t try stalking her.) We’ve talked before about her finding guys who don’t want kids.